Saturday, December 7, 2019

“Peace When There’s Conflict” - December 8, 2019



Romans 15:4-13


            Be totally honest.  Do you expect to see peace between the Israelis and the Palestinians in your lifetime?  Do you think that the Russians can ever be trusted?  For that matter, do you think that people from this country are fully “over” the Civil War?  It wasn’t that long ago that I went to church with friends in southwestern Virginia.  After church we were in the car and one of them apologized to me; I hadn’t heard it but when I was introduced as being from Philadelphia, someone sniffed and said, “A Yankee!”  I told her, “That’s okay, Tammie.  Where I come from, that’s a compliment.”  Division, stereotyping, fear of the stranger, dislike of foreign ways, distrust of motives, and outright hostility seem to be baked into human nature.  I would be wasting your time if I gave a lot of examples, because we all know them and see them every day. 

            Yet deep down we know that cannot be right.  We are stirred by the idea, as crazy as it is, that there might come a time when the notion that some people are just natural enemies won’t apply.  I don’t just mean that over the centuries the English and French will stop making jokes about each other and will pick on the Spaniards instead.  I don’t mean that the Albanians and Croats and Serbs will decide that the Turks are their real enemy and band together against them.  I’m talking about the poetic prophecies of Isaiah:

“The wolf shall live with the lamb,
            the leopard shall lie down with the kid,
the calf and the lion and the fatling together,
and a little child shall lead them.
The cow and the bear shall graze,
their young shall lie down together;
and the lion shall eat straw like the ox.” [Isaiah 11:6-7]

“The peaceable kingdom,” we call it.  It was one of the things that William Penn hoped to create in Pennsylvania when he opened it up to religious groups from all across Europe who had been killing each other for a century.  This Peaceable Kingdom, as Isaiah sings of it, is an unnatural place.  It goes directly against experience and natural instinct.  Woody Allen said, “The lion shall lay down with the lamb, but the lamb won’t get much sleep.” 

            It isn’t about the animals, though.  It’s about us.  It’s about what can happen, must happen, for peace to show up on earth and good will to be found among its peoples.  Peace comes from God, not from us.  We speak about being “peacemakers” and cite Jesus’ blessing:

“Blessed are the peacemakers,
            for they shall be called children of God.” [Matthew 5:9]

They are called “children of God” because they take after their heavenly Parent, who gives them the seeds of peace to plant and tend and nurture.  Peace does not come from us, but it is ours to experience, to share, and to bear witness.

            The early Church struggled to deal with the fact that it encompassed, at first, both Jews and Samaritans.  (Ha!  You thought I would say, “Jews and Gentiles, right?)  The gospels, especially John’s gospel, contain stories of how Jesus and the Samaritans reached out to one another even though they were culturally and religiously expected to stay on their sides of a centuries-old feud.  Then, when they had begun to get over that, suddenly the Holy Spirit began doing wonders in Jesus’ name among the Gentiles.  The book of Acts is filled with those stories and what it took for the Jewish believers (among whom there were likely Samaritans) to recognize that the Gentiles were also welcome as full participants and partners in the Kingdom. 

Paul reached back to Isaiah’s vision to find words for what was going on.  Unity among people wasn’t because they all liked each other.  It wasn’t some sort of Rodney King “why-don’t-we-all-just-get-along” moment.  There’s enough of that kind of papering over real hurt and ugly history, and ignoring or denying it never brings true healing.  Instead, he saw it as God’s grace showing up in our lives because of Jesus.  If one person could, in himself, reconcile humanity and God, then that person could and would reconcile people to one another.  He points out what the Hebrew scriptures say:

“‘Praise the Lord, all you Gentiles,
and let all peoples praise him’;
and again Isaiah says,
‘The root of Jesse shall come,
the one who rises to rule the Gentiles;
in him the Gentiles shall hope.’” [Romans 15:11-12]

            Another expression for this Peaceable Kingdom comes from an American poet and preacher and prophet, who called it the Beloved Community.  In his essay Pilgrimage to Nonviolence, Martin Luther King, Jr., wrote (and bear with the language of a previous generation):

“Men are not easily moved from their mental ruts or purged of their prejudiced and irrational feelings.  When the underprivileged demand freedom, the privileged at first react with bitterness and resistance.  Even when the demands are couched in non-violent terms, the initial response is substantially the same.  …But the nonviolent approach does something to the hearts and souls of those committed to it.  It gives them new self-respect.  It calls up resources of strength and courage that they did not know they had.  Finally, it so stirs the conscience of the opponent that reconciliation becomes a reality.”[1]

And you know that this man was ready to die to see that happen.  Even more did Jesus before him die to see God’s love shared with all people. 

            Peace always requires sacrifice.  At the most basic level, when there is conflict someone has to give something up.  Usually, everyone involved has to give somewhere.  Compromise is not a sign of weakness, but of strength.  It is only to be avoided when it asks someone to surrender their integrity or to excuse an injustice.  When it is a matter of respecting your opponent, it keeps an opponent from becoming an enemy.  Think of the way that families negotiate where and how to spend holidays.  Thanksgiving is at one house and Christmas at another; or maybe Christmas Eve is for the extended family and Christmas Day is for the household.  A really trivial example from my own family, where a lot of people like dark meat, is that we give the youngest person a chance to have the turkey leg, since the younger you are, the more likely you will want to eat with your fingers anyway.  Why not let them have the piece that comes with its own handle?

            To go to the other end of the spectrum, the ultimate peace came to us when Jesus surrendered the glory of heaven and lay aside his complete power, his equality with God the Father, to walk us back out of our sin and death into eternal life.  That is real sacrifice, that sealed peace between God and us.  And what it asks of us is to live into the reality that Jesus creates, the Peaceable Kingdom, the Beloved Community, to be centered no longer on ourselves, but on God, along with the many others whose voices together with ours form a symphony of praise and worship, of love and service.  Said Paul,

“May the God of steadfastness and encouragement grant you to live in harmony with one another, in accordance with Christ Jesus, so that together you may with one voice glorify the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ.” [Romans 15:5-6]

And let all God’s children say, “Amen.”



[1] Martin Luther King, Jr., “Pilgrimage to Nonviolence” in Strength to Love (New York: Harper & Row, 1963), 139.

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