Saturday, August 17, 2013

“Divided Families” - August 18, 2013

Luke 12:49-56


Let me tell you a little story about some people you see every week when you walk into the narthex, staring at you from the wall.[1]



The first of them is Barbara Heck.  She was born in Limerick County, Ireland and grew up speaking German.  She lived in New York and died near Montreal.  Her married name was actually Hescht, but in English it turned into Heck, and apparently that was entirely appropriate.  She understood what Jesus was talking about when he said,

“Do you think that I have come to bring peace to the earth?  No, I tell you, but rather division! From now on five in one household will be divided, three against two and two against three; they will be divided: father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.” [Luke 12:51-53]
See, she had grown up in a community of German immigrants who had settled in Ireland as part of the same mass migration that brought the Pennsylvania Dutch to New York, New Jersey, and Pennsylvania.  In Ireland, like here, they proved to be excellent farmers, but there the landlords responded by raising rents on them and milking all they could out of the migrants.  The poverty and the anger and the isolation led them to become an especially hard-living group that was known for its excesses.  It didn’t help that in fifty years they never had a pastor who spoke German.  That was until John Wesley, who spoke it fluently, began to pass through there on twenty-two trips to Ireland.  His preaching set off a revival, and at the age of eighteen, Barbara gave her heart to Christ.  That took place right before the landlords began to confiscate the common lands and the Irish Germans, pushed to the limit, decided to move to North America.[2] 

In 1760 Barbara Heck found herself, then, in New York City.  They had been there about five years when they were joined by another group of Wesley’s people from Ireland, including her cousin Philip Embury, who had been a local preacher before emigrating.[3]  During that five years, the Germans had slipped back into their old habits, and there came a day when Barbara walked into a room and found a group of men, possibly including Embury, gambling at cards.  She scooped the deck off the table and tossed it into the fireplace and told Embury in no uncertain terms that he needed to start preaching to them again or the Lord would hold him responsible for whatever depths they fell to.[4]            

            Shortly after that, she marched her husband, their slave Betty and a day laborer whose name is unknown and sat them down in Embury’s house to hear the gospel and to pray.  The group grew quickly, made up mostly of Irish immigrants and Africans that shortly outgrew the house and so they built themselves a chapel.  There they were joined by this man, Captain Thomas Webb, a British regimental commander, who kept the group together when the Hecks left New York City as they saw the Revolution coming.[5] 



It is now the John Street United Methodist Church, two blocks from Ground Zero, and in addition to housing a vital congregation it was the site of our ministry to the workers cleaning up after 9/11. 

            Barbara understood that when the gospel comes into somebody’s life, that it shakes things up because it reorders our priorities.  She had seen the destruction of lives that had been part of the community’s experience in Ireland and knew the danger that gambling presented, then and now, and would have none of it.  She was not simply going to stand by and watch the cycle repeat.  She knew that it did not have to do that, and the way to break out of it was to begin right there, with her own family, and with the good news.

            People in the same family will have different priorities.  If you are certain of yours, then stick with them.  Understand that not everyone – not even those closest to you – is going to get it: 

“five in one household will be divided, three against two and two against three; they will be divided: father against son and son against father, mother against daughter and daughter against mother, mother-in-law against her daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law against mother-in-law.”
A college chaplain I knew told me about a call he received from some parents one time, worried about their daughter, whom they knew to be active in the Wesley Fellowship on that campus.  They wanted him to sit her down for a talk.  “What’s the problem?” he asked.  He knew her well, and thought everything was going alright for her: she was a medical student who was about to go out and start her residency.  That was the problem, said her parents.  She had just told them that she was turning down a residency in surgery and announced that she was going into public health.  Instead of a respected and honorable career leading to a comfortable retirement, she was looking at years and years of civil service jobs, dealing with immunization clinics, and infectious disease control in slums.  They were sure it had something to do with what she’d been hearing on Sunday mornings and wanted the chaplain to clarify things for her; she’d clearly misunderstood.

            The thing is, that she had understood perfectly.  She knew well Matthew’s version of the words we heard from Luke this morning.

“Do not think that I have come to bring peace to the earth; I have not come to bring peace, but a sword. For I have come to set a man against his father, and a daughter against her mother, and a daughter-in-law against her mother-in-law; and one’s foes will be members of one’s own household. Whoever loves father or mother more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever loves son or daughter more than me is not worthy of me; and whoever does not take up the cross and follow me is not worthy of me.  Those who find their life will lose it, and those who lose their life for my sake will find it.” [Matthew 10:34-39]
It’s a great story, and I have no idea how it ended.  I’d like to think that her parents came around.  I’d like to think that eventually they came to realize that life is found in that kind of discipleship – but I just don’t know.  What I do know is that somewhere on this planet there is a town or city where a child has been vaccinated because of her choice, or where a parent has been kept healthy enough to provide for their children because of her dedication, or where a grandfather has lived long enough to hold a baby in his arms and pray for God’s blessing, all because of a disease that he did not catch from a mosquito that did not bite him because she insisted on good drainage.

And I know that she did that because she chose to follow Christ.



[1] The paintings are part of a longer series of water color portraits of people of faith, mostly Methodists, by Jack Schaenkle that hangs in the back of First United Methodist Church, Phoenixville, PA.  Come see them.
[5] http://media.sabda.org/alkitab-6/wh2-hdm/hdm0211.pdf  Webb was instrumental in the establishment of Methodism in Philadelphia and the founding of St. George’s United Methodist Church.

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