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"The Givers' Quandary" - April 6, 2025

 

John 12:1-8
April 6, 2025


Six days before the Passover Jesus came to Bethany, the home of Lazarus, whom he had raised from the dead.

There they gave a dinner for him. Martha served, and Lazarus was one of those reclining with him.

Mary took a pound of costly perfume made of pure nard, anointed Jesus's feet, and wiped them with her hair. The house was filled with the fragrance of the perfume.

But Judas Iscariot, one of his disciples (the one who was about to betray him), said,

"Why was this perfume not sold for three hundred denarii and the money given to the poor?"

(He said this not because he cared about the poor but because he was a thief; he kept the common purse and used to steal what was put into it.)

Jesus said, "Leave her alone. She bought it so that she might keep it for the day of my burial.

You always have the poor with you, but you do not always have me.”

 

 

            The argument between Mary and Judas that we hear about in John 12 is one that has never been settled, and never will be.  In fact, I found myself caught up in it last week, and found myself expressing Judas’s position.  (Talk about an uncomfortable thing to realize!)

            Someone was clearing things up a bit and found some toys that had never been taken out of their boxes, and asked if I knew anyone who could get them into the hands of a child who would play with them.  I suggested that if they were still in unopened boxes, there might be collectors who would buy them, and the money could be given to provide essentials for a family.  The response was that the giver would rather see them go directly to a child to make them happy as a little surprise present – something special.  That was basically the position that Mary took.

            It’s a quandary that comes around at Christmastime every year.  Do you really want to be the person who gives an eight-year-old a warm sweater and three pair of thick socks for Christmas?   Even if that is exactly what they need, it is a good way to disappoint a child.  So most people find a way to sneak a couple of candy bars or a package of Silly Putty into the box – again, something that may not be purely practical, but that attends to genuine needs that are not physical.

            There’s more to human need that things that can be touched and seen, because human beings are more than robots or machines.  Yes, we need food and clothing and without them we die.  We need more, however.  We need things that connected us to the joy of life and to all the  extras that can be as simple as the occasional stupid joke or as elaborate as a musical.  It might be a chance to sit down and watch a sunset or to see a first-down from the thirty-yard line. 

            The gifts that build up the spirit are ones that recognize, even if only by implication, that there is more to a human being than meets the eye.  The very first temptation that the devil laid out in front of Jesus as he fasted in the wilderness was to change stones into bread because he  was hungry. 

“But he answered, ‘It is written,

            “One does not live by bread alone,

                        But by every word that comes from the mouth of                                 God.”’” [Matthew 11:4]

 

The extreme, extravagant kindness that Mary held out to Jesus was a recognition of Jesus’ very real, full humanity – both a preparation for his burial, Jesus noting,

“She bought it so that she might keep it for the day of my burial”, [John 12:7]

and maybe a special way to say, “Thank you,” to the one who had recently raised her brother Lazarus from the dead or maybe (mind you, this is me speculating from a distance of 2100 years), maybe she did it with a hope that the divinity whose embodied Word, Jesus, had called Lazarus out of his tomb would not leave Jesus’ body in the grave, either. 

            Instead of maybe reading things into Mary’s over-the-top gesture, though, let me get back on track where I think I wandered off.

            To serve people as Jesus served is to see them as people with both body and soul.  People are always both/and, not either/or.  That’s why Judas’s outlook falls short.  Our outlooks, too, fall short when we swing too far in one direction or the other, as does happen, and we have to be called back into balance.  Then we need to hear the voice of James telling us how

“Someone will say, ‘You have faith and I have works.’ Show me your faith apart from your works, and I by my works will show you my faith.’” [James 2:18]

At times the church can become, in the old phrasing, “too heavenly-minded to be of any earthly use”.  At other times the church can be so focused on what is going on in front of us that we become more or less a social club or a political organization.  It is when we stay centered on the love of God and love for God that we are most true, and it can be done.

            The very first campus-based chapter of Habitat for Humanity was started in 1988 at Duke University by an undergraduate named Ted Smith, who was a junior at the time.  Ted was great at involving people and things were booming every Saturday morning, where the work groups would gather, share in a brief prayer time, then get their assignments and start hammering.  About two months into the first project, some of the undergrads noticed that the group’s charter was written from a very specifically Christian perspective that they didn’t share.  They asked whether the campus chapter could remove the language.  Nowadays, the Habitat website says,

“Habitat is a global nonprofit, ecumenical Christian housing organization. While our mission is inspired by Christian teachings, all who desire to be a part of our work are welcome — without regard to religious preference or background.”[1]

We are talking about an ancient time predating the interwebs, however, and it fell on the local group to work it through.  One suggestion was to form a separate group to be called “Habitat for Humanists”.  As it rolled out, instead of that the organizing committee simply said, “We have to be honest; we’re doing this just to be helpful, but because it’s part of our Christian spirituality.  We’ll come five minutes early to pray, and nobody who doesn’t want to will have to take part.  We cannot change the faith-language in the charter, but wouldn’t do that even if we could.”  Everyone was respectful on both sides and people who had stood off to the side in September were joining the prayer circle before the semester was over. 

            Some gave more than they had planned.  Others received more than they had looked for.   When people honor one another as children of God, such things happen.  God’s grace brings its own healing and its own strength and its own blessing to body and soul.  Psalm 133 says,

“How very good and pleasant it is
   when kindred live together in unity!
It is like the precious oil on the head,
   running down upon the beard,
on the beard of Aaron,
   running down over the collar of his robes.
It is like the dew of Hermon,
   which falls on the mountains of Zion.
For there the Lord ordained his blessing,
   life for evermore.”



[1] https://www.habitat.org/stories/common-questions-about-habitat-humanity

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